Dating site fixes and redesign

I'm looking to fix and improve my website http://myinternationalbride.com. It uses the webdate software. Does anyone know if this software can handle upwards of 50,000 users? Is it possible for this software to be entirely bug free? In my attached document you will see that I need alot of easy fixes and one minor mod upgrade and a search sort added. I need someone who can communicate daily the progress of this project and can finish this within 15 days. My budget is low so please bid accordingly. My website [login to view URL] which uses the webscribble webdate software. I need an experienced programmer/graphic designer to fix and add some functionality to the website and add some color and enhancement to the front page. If you can't start very soon and finish within two weeks then please don't bid. Also a good internet connection is a must. Here's what I need. Project list 1. There is a problem when you create your profile and in Instant messaging. Whenever someone uses an apostrophe (') in there description words (example: I've) when they hit the "finish" button, the changes don't take affect. When I tried to add through admin I get a "syntax error". It's the same with the Instant Messenger. When you send a message with a ('), the message sends as blank. 2. Currently when payments are made through our billing system (Paypal) the billing information isn't getting updated in the admin or the user's billing area. Also the member's “unlimited contact” expiration date should be updating according to the payment made. I need both these to be working properly. 3. Add a sort in admin for the “search” so that the last person who signed in will appear first in any search and if the person hasn't signed on in a long time they will appear last in the search and store the date of the last time they logged in. 4. When a member sends another member an email there is an email sent to the recipients email box with a link back to Myinternationalbride.com. The link for Mailbox is incorrect. I can forward the generated email to you for your inspection. Also the same problem with email sent for virtual kisses sent. Change this link to go to our website’s sign-in page on both emails. 5. Give us the ability to add and change text links at the bottom of the front page in the open space and along the left side of the front page if it will fit and eliminate the lines between the boxes on the very bottom of the front page also. 6. In place of the “Featured Members” change to “Newest Members” using three profiles instead of two with the ability to change at our discretion which members that will appear. Using their picture, username, age, country (highlighted) and a very short description. Make each profile linkable to that members profile page. 7. Slight color makeover of front page colors using more shading and adding some blue, pink, white shading and different borders. Let us know your ideas. Add some more shading to the “My International Bride” logo. Maybe if you can show us your ideas would be great. Maybe a wavy shadow effect. 8. Fix “Gallery” view within the search results to correct the right border to be in line with the most right profile edge. 9. In members profile page switch positions of the “Make contact and its functions” with “How we match up”. Also change the box shading of the contact functions to a lighter color that matches but stands out, maybe blue. Move the “last activity” to the top, right above the “Personal details” box, right in the middle. 10. Add payment button and payment capabilities with paypal on the “correspondence assistance” page and “fiance visa page and edit a few words on theses pages. 11. When a visitor views profiles on our site they are limited to the number of views. After that limit is exceeded by default you are taken to the user sign on page. Add text on the sign-in page to state “If you're not already a member, please create your profile now to be able to view and contact all members.” And add a link to the registration page. This software will not be copied by you. The website should be working perfect and bug free when you're done and debug help if any problems come up because of your changes for at least 2 weeks. A professional look and functionality is very important.